Yes! It sound crazy but this is the technique I learn from my councilor if you are in the middle to two choice it’s always best to stand in one of your choice and talk to opposite one, this is different from choosing right vs. right rather it’s more on elaborating each one personalities and giving it a time and weight equally.

There is no consequence whether you chose left or right and the felling is quite difficult to understand but the most important here what ever you chose you understand both as a whole and there is no losing option.

Decision like Employer or Self Employed is one of best example to talk to your self, you must select first to be one of theme and talk to opposite one and tell about what, how and when is the best time to be one of it.

Talking to your self sometime gives a new idea, personality and decision from you.